Anonymous:
I’m seeking advice and guidance from fellow parents who may have experienced a similar situation. Recently, my husband and I had an intimate moment before he left for a trip. We thought our two kids were occupied, but our 10-year-old son unexpectedly walked in on us.
To make matters worse, we weren’t in bed, and I was holding onto a table for support. Our son quickly shut the door and walked away. We immediately had a family discussion, apologizing and explaining that our love for each other led to the moment.
However, since then, I’ve noticed a significant change in our son’s behavior. He’s become withdrawn, morose, and barely talks to me. I feel shy around him, and our usual connection has been disrupted.
Should I:
- Have another conversation with him to clarify and reassure?
- Give him space and time to process?
- Seek professional guidance from a therapist?
How long does it typically take for children to adjust after witnessing something like this? Have you experienced something similar? Share your advice and experiences.
Share your thoughts and advice in the comments below.
