I’m In A Relationship With Two Men , One Wants To Settle Down .Please Advice Me

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My name is Thandeka,I am 26 years old.I live in Kempton park, Johannesburg in South Africa. I’m in a relationship with two guys. One wants us to get married by December but I don’t love him enough to marry him and also I don’t want to get married without having a job, while the other that I truly love is not ready for marriage . Whenever I mention marriage he always get angry and he has refused to introduce me to his parents, he keeps giving one excuse or the other,  Please I need your advice, should I go ahead and marry the first guy or wait till the one I love is ready ?