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Dear Duchess,
My name is Bianca I have been married for 34 years and now my husband has just gone on pension.
I work a full day and all he seems to do is moan about everything
I can’t handle this anymore and I feel like I don’t know him anymore. He seems to have no interests and I do not know what he does all day besides watching TV and thinking of things to complain about. We fight all the time over stupid things.
I love him but I feel like my only option is to leave
Maybe I married too young? I just thought that once the kids were out of the house we would then enjoy life. The kids are out the house, but things are definitely not how I imagined they would be.
I am still going to be working for quite some time, and I don’t know if the different stages we now find ourselves in is a deal breaker for us. I do not want to come home to this grumpy old man every day.
Please help.
