In a Relationship, whether married or still in courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.
1. Don’t Share Your Partner’s Weaknesses
Don’t tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.
2. Keep Quarrels Private
Don’t tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from the outside while you settle issues from the inside.
3. Keep Finances Private
Don’t tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he’s giving more than you expected.
4. Keep Intimacy Private
Men don’t tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that’s a secret between you and your wife.
5. Don’t Involve Family in Relationship Issues
Don’t ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won’t like the outcome if she’s a jealous mother-in-law.
6. Protect Your Relationship from Friends
Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that’s why you shouldn’t tell them what moves him most.
7. Keep Spiritual Leaders Out of Relationship Drama
Even if your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as a sermon. Just talk to God alone.
8. Protect Your Children
Don’t tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.
9. Keep Past Mistakes Private
Don’t tell anybody about your partner’s past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.
10. Avoid Testing Loyalty
Don’t tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love. Prevention is better than cure….
