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Hello Sandra,
I will love to share my experience in one year and nine days in marriage.
I have never experienced what is called love in marriage my husband only gets down to my level wherever he wants sex. Because of this I’m so confused.
There’s no form of communication and even if I try, he tells me I’m tired I need to rest. Is it that he’s having an affair or because I haven’t gotten pregnant yet?
I’m really in a confused state and what I have in mind now is to ask for a divorce. Please I need your opinion because I’m losing my mind.
Thandeka
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this is serious and so sad…endure ,he might change
Sorry to let you know that, he is NOT a husband but, a sex friend. So sad that, a lot of people around the world, are in your shoes also, today. To start learning how you can overcome, you’ll need to join this our face book group, (THE BITTER TRUTH). The info in this group is amazing and they’ll bring you not only JOY but, a HOPE. Yes, there’s still a hope, for YOU all!
It shows he doesn’t love you,but keep praying for him to love you cos marriage is for better for worse.
He doesn’t really love u. Maybe you should you should find out, why he is really behaving that way. There might be something he is having in mind.
YOU DID NOT TELL US IF HE DISCHARGES HIS RESPONSIBILITIES AS A HUSBAND. IF HE DOES YOU MAY NEED TO REPORT HIM TO YOUR PARENTS WHO MIGHT NEED TO INTERVENE. DIVORCE IS NOT THE SOLUTION. SOME WOMEN ARE GOING THROUGH WORSE SITUATION THAN YOURS. PRAR FERVERTLY. ALLAH WOULD SEE YOU THROUGH.
Yes,marriage is for better for worse as said but what happens to this fellow if she keep nursing this attitude of the husband and she dies,life goes on,my dear even if baby will come not in this way,were your husband look down on you but recognises you only in sex,no happiness, no joy,your heart is bitted and you call it marriage,I will advice you call him,pour out your heart felt and hear him why he choose to act that way and if he doesn’t file for divorce. The Sam Bible says you work and pray,and moreover heaven help those who help themselves, you don’t just pray alone,taking actions and make a move dear!
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